A few weeks ago as I was doing my mindless, post dinner scrolling of Facebook, I came across a post by Mia Freedman. I really admire Mia and the journey she has taken with her online empire MammaMia and often find interesting and thought provoking content via her social media, books and podcasts.
This post though, has really had me thinking over the last few weeks and I’ve been jotting my thoughts down, trying to work through in my head what it is I feel – why the post has bothered me so much.
I’m trying to be a little braver too and voice my thoughts out loud in the theme of being conscious that the world needs more voices in it, more people taking a risk to express different opinions so we don’t just get sucked in to believing/hearing only those voices that are loudest. I also think that it is important to not just be a consumer of creativity and online content, but also to try and put some of your own ‘creating’ out into the world too – I think the world is a much more interesting place when that happens, and there seems to be fewer and fewer people creating these days.
Anyway, here’s the post that sparked all of this: Continue reading
With Valentine’s Day coming up next week, I’ve been inspired to write a post about it.
I’m not usually a Valentine’s Day fan, but I’ve decided to make a bit more of an effort this year. I think it is something to do with trying to slow life down a little in 2018, to spend more time focusing on the important things which are the people I love and the things I love to do.
I don’t disagree that Valentine’s Day feels a bit contrived – Matt thinks it was all invented by the greeting card industry to convince us to buy expensive flowers, cards and chocolates, but I think this is kinda missing the point.
Valentine’s Day is about love.
I like the idea of having a day to remind us to be kind, to be nice, to love the important human beings in our life, especially in today’s times of busy, busy, busy, where making a bit of extra effort often gets forgotten, or put on the too hard/too tired pile.
I think a little TLC goes a long way. I also think that it takes effort to make marriages and family work and I’m going to use Valentine’s Day as a reminder to put some oomph in. Continue reading
Seeing as I did such a terrible job of blogging in 2017, I thought the best way to bring everybody up to speed was to do a ‘Fealy Family 2017 Highlight’s reel’ post, so here goes …..
The major events of 2017 were Matt’s Nuffield Australia scholarship travels (Matt spent a total of twelve weeks last year overseas!), my QLD Rural Women’s finalist award, a trip to Bali for the kids and I, a visit from the Brissy cousins and Jack finishing primary school and graduating as the male school dux along with receiving the instrumental music award for the year. Pretty awesome all in all.
However, if I had to describe 2017 in one word, I think I would have to choose ‘overdone’. It was a fantastic year, so many amazing things, but looking back we definitely overstretched ourselves and pushed our little family to the limits of what we could cope with, and to be honest, without all the help we received from our extended family – I think the wheels would have fallen off. Continue reading
Well, all the kids are back at school today and Matt is back in the Blue Sky orchard picking mangoes, which means our ‘routine machine’ has cranked into motion again. I used to love routine and the productivity it brings, so far this year – honestly? I just want to keep everybody at home and on holidays forever – sigh. All good things must come to an end I guess.
I’m feeling restless, all over the place and a bit low and teary today. Feeling old with our eldest baby starting high school and so not ready to launch back in to the craziness of mango/avocado season, work, work and all of the things and demands on our time.
So, I thought today was a good day for a ‘Taking Stock’ post – feel free to join in and post your responses too via the comments, Facebook or wherever. Continue reading
Poooft. Hear that? That is the sound of a layer of dust being blown off this little ole blogging space! I can’t believe I only wrote one measly blog post in the whole of 2017 – what a disaster! I sure did miss it but 2017 was definitely the year of total overcommitment for the Fealy Family, despite our best intentions for it to be otherwise.
2018 is going to be different! You heard it here first and no famous last words this year. Continue reading
I am having blogging withdrawals and feeling desperate just to get back in to the swing of things, so today I’m doing a very quick post. I’m going with the mantra that it is better to have some record on here than nothing at all.
This post is one of many long, long overdue, about twelve months overdue in fact.
Kipp is turning three next week and I have just realised that I have not yet done a post about his second birthday – aaaaargh – mum fail about number bizillion and three at this point. Anyway, I’m going to do a bit of catching up over the next few weeks so there might be a bit of jumping around all over the place on the blog. Continue reading
Fealy Kids Xmas 2016
I know I said I would do a ‘what we have been up to’ post tonight, but I’m feeling like I need to do this one instead. It is a little bit of a self indulgent post – so I won’t be offended if you give it a miss :-).
The kids and I spent the day in Cairns today and managed to get a ‘Santa Photo’ for 2016 (see above).
We usually head down at this time of year so Jack can spend the birthday money that is burning a hole in his pocket from his birthday at the end of November and so we can do a little bit of Christmas shopping. The kids get to check out the big smoke for a day, take in the lovely Christmas decorations and get a dose of city Christmas spirit. Matt was in the packing shed today – in full mango madness, so he missed out this year.
The thing is – it’s a week out from Christmas and I am feeling decidedly un-Christmasy! Continue reading
I feel like all I do on the blog these days is apologise for the long stretch is has been since we last blogged! Gah! Anyway, we are here and still kicking along. Things are busy, so busy in our little Fealy Family world. To be honest, I think we have let things get out of whack a little – family time seems to have been pushed out due to farm stuff, scouts stuff, my volunteer/work stuff, kids stuff – so much stuff! When we headed off on our trip to travel oz, we did it to try to simplify our life and change some habits – this was fairly successful on our trip and we had planned to try to keep some of that simplicity in our life when we moved to Blue Sky, but we’ve let all the ‘stuff’ creep back in. I don’t really know what the solution is – it all feels important, we’ve no idea what to let go of, but as a start, now that the craziness of mango and avocado season has finished, we are trying to prioritise some family time again.
So here’s a bit of an update on the Fealy Family as at April, 2016. Continue reading
Hello Everyone. Things have been a little bit of crazy busy (in a good way) in the Fealy Family recently – gah – bring on the end of the avocado season and hopefully a slow down in the Easter School holidays! We’ve landed in March 2016 already which is a bit of a milestone month for us as that means we’ve been blogging on this little ‘Are We There Yet?’ blog for just over three years now – wow – that’s a lot of rambling away on the keyboard! Thanks so much to all those who are still following along – I know that this blog doesn’t fit nicely in any real niche – we’re not true travel or camping bloggers – there are too many posts about kids birthdays and parenting moments and other ‘fluff’ for that. However – we’re not true lifestyle/parenting/mummy bloggers, nor are we totally just farm bloggers. I don’t really know where we fit – ‘Are We There Yet?’ is definitely a mish mash of all of these things and while the statistics say that not fitting nicely into a blog ‘category’ means we will never make it big in the blogging world – we’re ok with that, as the aim of this blog has always been about ‘making memories of us’ and we’re a pretty crazy, mish mashed kinda family! Continue reading